Review the following list of symptoms:
- Silence, withholding
- Gossip: he said/she said
- Real issues are surfaced offline, avoided in meetings
- Blame, finger-pointing
- Email bombs
- Polite chit-chat in meetings vs. open, honest debate & dialog
- Character assassination
- Loss of respect for one or more key players
- Team dynamics distract everyone from delivering high value to customers and shareholders
- Everyone thinks it’s someone else’s fault
- No one knows how to fix it
- Loss of morale
If any of this sounds familiar, you’re not alone! Executive teams are like families: without the right structure and tools, they have a tendency to devolve into dysfunctional dynamics. One team that I worked with identified the above behaviors and added a truckload of their own, then hung dollar signs on the cost, in lost deals (top line) and lost profitability (bottom line). It was in the millions, and we were only looking at the past year!
Dysfunction is on a continuum: your team’s may be mild, or it may be catastrophic. Either way, it needs focus and attention to fix the issues. By far the most effective way to address team dynamics is to bring in an outside coach. “Yeah, right,” you say – “she’s just trying to drum up new business!” At the risk of sounding that way, let me make a case.
If I am a part of the team, even a team leader (CEO for an executive team), it’s difficult for me to intervene effectively. Why? Because I am a part of the problem! I have participated in the past dynamics of the team; therefore, I am a part of those dynamics. I contribute in some way that is unclear to me – it’s in my “blind spot” so to speak. As a part of the problem, but not wise regarding how, my temptation is to take the “authoritative parental stance,” i.e., “You guys better shape up!” Or, I may take the “co-dependent stance,” i.e., “I’m sure it will all magically work out somehow.” I haven’t powerfully addressed the dynamics; I’ve merely squelched them or denied them.
As the group’s leader, if I knew the right tools to apply, I would have done it already. But I “don’t know what I don’t know.” So, the first step in healing dysfunctional teams is for the leader to admit the need for outside help.
Fast forward to the first day of intervention. From the moment a third party enters the room with your team, a change takes place, immediately. Simply the presence of a stranger shifts the dynamic. First, people behave differently with someone new in the room, at least they do at first. They put their best foot forward, not wanting to appear to be the person who is causing the problem.
In that moment, there’s an opportunity: for growth, for new ways of looking at old problems and best of all for the hope that things can improve. If the coach quickly establishes rapport and respect with the team, there’s a foundation in place. A sense of “emotional safety” replaces the old feelings of distrust. People start to open up. Issues are aired with new directions taken to resolve them.
This is called “pattern interrupt.” In team dynamics, the old patterns must be interrupted, then new ones introduced. A good outside coach can quickly identify the team dynamics that need to be interrupted - then offer new tools to replace old behaviors.
A good coach engenders respect because the team senses that he or she intends to support the greater good, not look for a scapegoat. The team also quickly senses the experience level and competency of the coach and that inspires trust. A deep exhale permeates the room.
With a combination of facilitation and training, the coach leads the team through “practice” and skill-building, using their actual business issues as “grist for the mill.” At the end of the day, the team feels empowered, strengthened, and hopeful. Success! One or two good team-building days can literally launch a team in an entirely new direction so that they create significantly higher value for shareholders and customers.
Nina Atwood, M.Ed., LPC, is a LEAN Affiliate executive coach who works with CEOs and owners of small to mid-sized businesses to help them lead major change initiatives – such as a Lean Enterprise Transformation. Nina leads our Managing Resistance to Change program that we offer for removing the waste from leadership communication and empowering mangers with the tools needed to align teams during times of organizational change. See www.ninaatwood.com for more information.